Well, here comes the answer to the questions asked by most grooms, as how to handle the wedding, especially it is widely believed that the bride has the higher say in the matters of wedding. Have a look at the five tips below and sail away smoothly:
1.IT IS ABOUT YOU ‘BOTH’:
A wedding is not about the bride only, or her taste and choices. It is very much about you too, Mr.Groom. Participate in everything right from scratch, choosing the color of the lights to choosing the type of the wedding ring and make your point. She will love it and she will admire you even more. And a checklist will definitely come handy to both of you.
Women possess the inclination to panic earlier than men, they get stressed out as there is too much pressure of making everything perfect. Groom, play as peacemaker, help her relax. Offer a helping hand in almost everything and anything. Be a man. After all, you start to love her.
You don’t have to try and play a superhero or any character right out of a movie. No, that is unrealistic. Be yourself. If she had to love the character out of the movie, she wouldn’t be getting married to you. Just be the way you are, even if it is very simple, because after all simplicity is the ultimate beauty.
4.TAKE A BREAK:
Amidst all the preparation for the wedding day, don’t forget to spend some time together, just the two of you. Because this time of your wedding is not going to come again and there are certain moments you could spend that would be memorable. It would even relieve you of the pressure and would get you out of the whole being very serious trap. Romantic gestures always work!
Know all the details very clearly, don’t leave out any ambiguity in connection with the wedding and the honeymoon. Plan everything well in advance, with clarity. If there is something you don’t want to do or if there is something, which you are extremely keen on doing at any time, tell her specifically. Remember to keep yourself happy as well.
You are smart enough to know things like getting a haircut or a shave, get a gentle clean. But, these tips will work out best for you and avoid any kind of hassle! Try out DIY wedding ideas in your marriage ceremony… Happy wedding!